I woke this Friday morning and
sought to quickly do what had become a ritual for me (and a zillion other
BlackBerry users), update my pm and change dp with the customary TGIF (Thank
God Its Friday), and then the call came in on my curve 9320… the caller id
revealed that it was my friend and course-mate, so when he asked “Deji, are you
awake? I answered yes irritatedly as I normally always assume that only a
foolish person would ask such a question. I mean, would I answer if I was
sleeping?
Unbeknownst to me, he wasn’t
foolish rather he needed to ascertain my state of mind before dropping his
bombshell…then he said it “Akin is dead.”
My heart skipped a beat; I could
feel my balls shrink in my scrotum, the cold that crept right through me would
have chilled a Pepsi in the Sahara. Then I did what the average human does, I
denied the truth. It’s a lie I said, although I knew that he wouldn’t call me
to prank me, he wasn’t the type. Two
hours and several phone calls later, we were tearing down Ikorodu road in two
cabs as we sought to evidence the truth ourselves. As I sat in the cab and
stared out at the passing freeway, the truth hit me right in the face, literally
(Actually, it was a newspaper centre spread from a danfo that escaped its
reader that hit me in the face), THE WORLD WE LIVE IN!!!
When I decided to write this
morning, I was going to write about love, and money and girls and every good
thing I craved. But, all that paled into insignificance in a second as those
words escaped my friend’s lips. I can talk about the great game of soccer and
last week’s fixtures, the rebirth (for a 1000th time ) of Fernando Torres,
the injury to Bale, the drought that has befallen RVP, and many other key
talking points.
I can talk about the madness and
disgraceful act of unilag students as they ambushed Wizkid for money after the
Pepsi Campus Challenge last night, the fact that Mr. Byno is now the new Pepsi
ambassador, or that we might just be witnessing the making of another celebrity
in unilag.
I can talk about the soon to be
released “The Gods are still not to be blamed” movie by Funke Akindele-Oloyede,
the military stand-off that is brewing in Asia between North and South Korea
and how the United States features in that particular situation.
There is so much I wanted to
discuss, but all I was really compelled to say was the truth! The truth is YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!!!
There, I said it, not surprised?
You’ve heard it before? So? It is still the truth! My father once said, “Only few live, many of us exist.” Are you living or existing?
Please drop your comments on what
you think is living and what you think existing is in the comments box
below….next week I would respond to your comments with my opinion and views on
them. Till then @hastag_dz_pm wishes you a wonderful week….
Living is to do what's right by God and man, existing is to live without any concern for others
ReplyDeleteLiving is to do what's right by God and man, existing is to live without any concern for others
ReplyDeleteTo my own understanding the difference between living and existing is not far fetched living simply means being in the world trying all possible means to achieve your dreams and also striving for perfection while existing is when you are in a world of no definition no dreams to pursue
ReplyDeleteLiving/leading your life is fulfilling your God giving purpose to those you are called to,the truth is that we are all called to do a particlar thing on earth for a particular set of people, leading/living that life is living.Existing on the other hand is leading/living a life your are not called to live you are not created to live or not even leading/living any life at all which is even worse but non is better.The earlier we the youths or young mind discover our individual purposes the better we are ,the better our country is the better the world we create for ourselves.Doing something u r born to do is leading /living a life doing anything contrary is existing
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ReplyDeleteTo me,living is being here with a purpose, an influence, being part of someones life, impacting, a quest to serve and help,being part of a cause, ...while existing is merely a self centred rush. Everyone sure does exist but a few do live.
ReplyDeleteNice piece man. Indeed one to reflect on. We can't keep living like we have got a spare life or like we r Luigi in Super Mario. Life ain't a game. We live once and die once. That's all we have got and that's all we need. Make the most of it.
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