She needs your help! #LifeIssues

She’s a year 4 student, with a boyfriend [Chris] who beats her up and cheats on her. Why won’t she break up with him?! Because her mum and mum’s Pastor told her that’s the guy she should stick with to the very end, that the Pastor saw a revelation. She was by the way in a very serious relationship with another guy who was cool and charming, who she really loved.

 When this revelation took place, Chris was still toasting her by then and she was just checking him out.

She loves to carry out every bidding of her mother, and her mother is by the way dead and that was her last request!

She’s afraid of being single and old, with what the Pastor said she feels Chris is the only guy for her!

Now she’s at a cross road, to either break up with the guy and ignore her mother’s dying wish or stay with Chris and he keeps breaking her heart!

She needs your advice! On what to do!

@Iam_Hhs : Abeg!! Her Mom is dead & She probably didn't know the kind of monster Chris was gonna turn out to be...i'm sure if she were to be alive, she'd tell her daughter to "fashi" (ignore) the pastor's vision...and i'm pretty sure that pastor's a fake....God won't give you a husband that will probably kill you before you get married...
 PLEASE!!! Leave Chris ASAP!!!

@DeGrand_Father They say people have 6 senses but mothers have 7 .sometimes or most times mothers are always right, i.e. they are good judges of character, they don’t need to meet someone before knowing who they are all they need is to take a look at them. Coming to the pastor’s they’re meant to be spiritual fathers who look out for all his spiritual children. But at this situation I beg to differ because if the Pastor really saw a revelation he was probably half asleep or not wearing his glasses cause God will not give you a husband who beats the hell out of you, if he was poor it would have been understandable, but not assault and battery every night by law she has all right to file for dissolution of that thing she might call a marriage. Her mother was probably moved by his good looks and may be money, a good mother is meant to know a good future son in law when she sees one but unfortunately this mother was lacking that 7^th sense and the pastor was using the wrong glasses during the revelation

                      +Kole Dada CHRIS was not beating her up when her mother was alive. Now that her mum is dead & Chris has changed from whom he used to be. So, she can ignore her dead mum's wishes rightly, due to fundamental principal change of circumstances.

 

             The girl should report the beatings to the pastor & ask him to tell, not advise Chris, never to lay his beating hands on her ever again. 

CHRIS is not the one! You can't beat up on someone regularly & on the same breathe say you love & care for that same person.

  

@OLUWA_BaMIJE When a spiritual revelation, is leading towards death, there should be a revaluation to know if it’s GOD talking or the devil deceiving! Because its spiritual doesn’t mean you follow blindly!

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